(08-05-2015, 04:09 AM)Ironbeard Wrote: Ever thought about joining other social sites like Facebook or Fetlife. There was this one my sister-in-law used for mothers but I forget the name. I'm not suggesting if you joking them to share them publicly. I join find different ones useful for different reasons.
So yeah, there's this. Looks like Kristi just got out of an abusive relationship.
I need to on a soapbox for a bit here and if the mods think this shouldn't stay on here then they can go ahead and take it down but I have to at least say it.
When I read and heard what Kristi said, I was hoping that all I would read was empathy and condolences to the 6 years of hell this woman experienced and to wish her all the best in the world.
What I read is crap like this:
Quote:Why do woman choose guys like this? Same old true story that nice guys tend to come last. Be an asshole you get the girl.
Quote:I can't understand why women stay with guys that abuse the shit out of them.
Quote:Why do women love assholes like this?
Quote:please stop going for the guys with biggest muscles. I almost guarantee you did that
So in a moment where a woman is telling a lot of personal trauma she went through, these clowns decide the best route to go is to A) blame the victim, B) generalize an entire sex, or C) both.
It's funny when supposed "nice guys" decided to be sexists douchebags because a woman was taken advantage of. It's like they're waging their fingers going "none of this would have happened if you just went with a nice guy like me." Newsflash: you're not a nice guy if you believe this. Nice guys complaining about finishing last are completely missing the point of being a nice person. You're not nice expecting for an unspecified reward down the road from a person of the opposite sex. You're nice because it's a good thing to do. And simply being a "nice guy" isn't the end-all, be-all to a relationship. You're right in that looks do matter. Lo and behold someone will find you more attractive if you put some effort into personal appearance. Running around with a neckbeard and a shirt with a dumb meme on it that only your internet friends will get is not going to attract you a date, and rightfully so.
Self-confidence, intelligence, proper hygiene and body image, and yes being a nice guy are what women are looking for. Quit the "women only want assholes" crap.
Wish I could click Like on this or something. Not only are these guys being jackasses by saying so but at least in my situation all the generalizations they made are so completely far off the mark it's ridiculous.
So yeah, there's this. Looks like Kristi just got out of an abusive relationship.
I need to on a soapbox for a bit here and if the mods think this shouldn't stay on here then they can go ahead and take it down but I have to at least say it.
When I read and heard what Kristi said, I was hoping that all I would read was empathy and condolences to the 6 years of hell this woman experienced and to wish her all the best in the world.
What I read is crap like this:
Quote:Why do woman choose guys like this? Same old true story that nice guys tend to come last. Be an asshole you get the girl.
Quote:I can't understand why women stay with guys that abuse the shit out of them.
Quote:Why do women love assholes like this?
Quote:please stop going for the guys with biggest muscles. I almost guarantee you did that
So in a moment where a woman is telling a lot of personal trauma she went through, these clowns decide the best route to go is to A) blame the victim, B) generalize an entire sex, or C) both.
It's funny when supposed "nice guys" decided to be sexists douchebags because a woman was taken advantage of. It's like they're waging their fingers going "none of this would have happened if you just went with a nice guy like me." Newsflash: you're not a nice guy if you believe this. Nice guys complaining about finishing last are completely missing the point of being a nice person. You're not nice expecting for an unspecified reward down the road from a person of the opposite sex. You're nice because it's a good thing to do. And simply being a "nice guy" isn't the end-all, be-all to a relationship. You're right in that looks do matter. Lo and behold someone will find you more attractive if you put some effort into personal appearance. Running around with a neckbeard and a shirt with a dumb meme on it that only your internet friends will get is not going to attract you a date, and rightfully so.
Self-confidence, intelligence, proper hygiene and body image, and yes being a nice guy are what women are looking for. Quit the "women only want assholes" crap.
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08-19-2015, 01:40 PM (This post was last modified: 08-19-2015, 01:42 PM by Mr. Fixit.)
There's nothing more revolting to me than an abusive asshole. One of the lessons my father drilled into me was that never, ever should a man hit a woman. A few days ago I saw a couple in the local wally world, this big affliction - shirt wearing douche and his beautiful blonde girlfriend, and she was walking staring at the floor with the look of a dog that had been beaten too much, sporting a nice fresh shiner on her face. It took everything I had not to beat his ass right then and there. Assholes like that should be shot. Kristi, I'm proud of you for getting away from that creep. You deserve better.
08-22-2015, 07:58 PM (This post was last modified: 08-22-2015, 08:05 PM by Archaon.)
I'm glad you're back and glad things are looking up for you, Kristi. I've not watched your video yet but the cycle of an unhealthy relationship can be hard to break, there's a lot of difficulty and uncertainty involved even if it's clear on a conscious level that the grass is greener on the other side.
I did see the comment on twitter about the size/placement of your implants current implants being your ex's idea and I sincerely hope you don't regret them too much; as I'm sure everyone here will agree you look absolutely incredible!
I'm sure you're used to the trolls by now but please ignore the asshat commenters on Youtube. And finally best of luck with your custody battle!
I only now saw that video. I am so sorry. You don't know me and I honestly as much I wish I did don't really know you. But seeing you cry hearing what you well thru I, mental issues or not I want bad things to happen to him. (Leaving it at that. Not in the right state of mind to do other things)
But I will say this. I was wondering it through the whole video till you answered it. Your daughter is safe and you are far away from him. And you are with a friend. Please stay in contact with your offline friends and family. Maybe make a deal that if they don't hear from you in a timeframe to check in and make sure you and your daughter is safe. Your closest friends and family are your Ohana. (Family in Hawaiian. Like in Lilo and Stitch) You need your Ohana and they need you.
(I'm sorry. I know you don't really know me. I'm just thinking as if someone in my family was in your situation what I would what them to do)
As for neigitive comments from YouTube or other places. I was going to say just come here to get sons positive comments. But honestly I bet if instead you go see your daughter and she her some they will be all washed away from your mind. They don't know you but she does. That's all you need.
One more thing. I wish. I really wish I had the ability to make Herbert come to live like Ted (but with better manners) so he could give you a hug. You hugged him. I just thing maybe he should be able to hug you back. Well it's a nice thought anyway.
(Sorry again for I believe seeming formal or familiar with you. Your video really made me feel a spectrum of emotions and it's hard to convey them. I'm so angry at your ex, relieved you and your are safe, worried your depressed still since I suffer from that and I don't want others to ever experience that, and empathic so I just wish I had the ability to say something to help or make you feel better. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. I keep thinking how I would feel if it happened to someone in my Ohana and that is where my words come form.)
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Here's hoping she's okay. I've watched a lot of her YouTube videos, we share a lot of the same thoughts and ideals. She's a wonderful, incredible woman, and any man would be lucky to have a goddess like her. God knows is give anything for a woman like that. But, pretty girls don't date broke mechanics.
whoever this Mr Lucky is in the future I hope he treats her as we see she should be treated. And patience since I want or hope she focuses solely on de-stressing, her daughter and making up time with her Ohana. Men can wait. And hugging Herbert more. He looks so snuggley and I bet a good listener.
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(09-07-2015, 05:49 PM)Bonecracker Wrote: Speaking of yumminess...
Okay, I'm a HUGE Linda Carter fan, BUT I don't remember the outfit looking that cool! However, they do have a new Wonder Woman in the new superman/batman movie. The chick from Fast and Furious I think. I'm guessing Kristi will STILL win.
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(10-25-2015, 08:42 PM)JustSomeone Wrote: Great picture! Am I the only one who notices the bruise on her right leg?
I think so.
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With cold weather moving in and where you live Kristi, all I can stay is I hope you stay warm and think about yellow thinks. (Mental trick to warm the body).
That goes for anyone here in the north and cold area.
Also maybe if you hug that give snuggable bear he will keep you warm too. (I remember Herbert. If I was to ever request you post a pic it would be you hugging him and smiling. )
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