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I lost my best friend, my wife…
#1
A few know already, but the reason I’ve been absent for the last few months is that I lost Mrs. Tug to sepsis recently. 

She had what was diagnosed as a simple kidney infection that was treated with antibiotics.  Two weeks later, she thought she was fully recovered from it.  She went up to our cabin where I was going to meet up with her a few days later when apparently she started to run a fever for a few hours and then woke up at 3am with a 104+ fever.  She called 911 and was at the emergency room 30 minutes later. About 20 minutes after she arrived, she was gone.

It has been devestating. 

All 4 kids and their families are at a loss, as am I. 

I’ll probably not be back for a while but I felt I owed a few good friends on here an explanation why I’ve been MIA and why I may not be around for the near future. 

Thanks to the few that have known and supported me.  


Tugboatcap.
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#2
I'm so sorry man. So sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you and your loved ones in my thoughts.
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#3
I sent you an email, Cappy. I am so deeply and profoundly hurting for you. Of course we have had some many private conversations and I was looking forward to meeting you both some day.

God bless and comfort you
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Finally have my mind back in a good place and am seriously thinking about retiring at 62-1/2 this summer, selling the Louisiana house and moving to the mountain house. I have a lady friend that is independent and she lost her husband to Covid. We have great fun and it’s been a friend with benefits/no strings attached type relationship so far. Not sure she sees the mountain house as anything other than an occasional getaway. May be the dividing factor if I go up there full time. Don’t think she’s ready to leave Mandeville.

Just wanted to say hello to everyone and that I’m alive and well and miss my good friends here.

I’ll check back in a few weeks!
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(05-04-2023, 12:33 AM)Tugboatcap Wrote: Finally have my mind back in a good place and am seriously thinking about retiring at 62-1/2 this summer, selling the Louisiana house and moving to the mountain house.  I have a lady friend that is independent and she lost her husband to Covid. We have great fun and it’s been a friend with benefits/no strings attached type relationship so far.  Not sure she sees the mountain house as anything other than an occasional getaway. May be the dividing factor if I go up there full time. Don’t think she’s ready to leave Mandeville.

Just wanted to say hello to everyone and that I’m alive and well and miss my good friends here.

I’ll check back in a few weeks!

Hey man, great to see you're still around and getting along, in a good place! Definitely take care of yourself and don't be a stranger!
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#6
Really really happy we have the Captain back again!!

Same email address for private conversations?
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#7
PM for you.

Got tired of the sucky service of the previous provider.
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